Free Will

The year 2015 is drawing to a close and with closure comes the potential for new doors of opportunity to open. I wish you all greater emotional depth in your lives in 2016 and enlightening adventures into your own family systems. Recently, in my doctoral program, I was asked to…

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Mothers and Daughters (Part 3)

Your mother was the perfect mother for you. What is your immediate emotional response to that statement? The answer that comes without thought, defensiveness, rationalizing, or intellectualizing will reveal much about where you are along your emotional and spiritual healing journey in this lifetime. Your mother is your source of…

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Abortion

  This is not a pro-life or pro-choice discussion on abortion. It is not a discussion of the right to have an abortion or not. This is about the emotional and energetic impact of an abortion on an individual and/or the greater family system. It’s a discussion about what happens…

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Live Life Fully

What does it mean to live life fully? One evening this week I experienced a lightning storm like nothing I had ever experienced before. The rain poured down and the sky completely lit up with flashes of sheet lightning every few seconds and this went on for at least an…

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Immigration (Part 1)

Immigration or migration is an emotional time for everyone involved.  Family systems carry the emotional wounds and trauma of immigration.  Family systems pass on their unresolved emotional trauma to the living descendants to be acknowledged, accepted, addressed, and healed.  We suffer consequences physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically, financially, intellectually, and…

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Emotions (Part 2)

Each relationship you experience in life is meant to trigger your emotional response in some way.  Why do you think families have so much drama?  Your family of origin is a training ground to teach you how to respond emotionally to situations.  Many of these emotional responses are learned unconsciously…

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Emotions (Part 1)

Do you openly process your emotions when they are triggered every day?  Each one of us functions like a tuning fork, resonating with the energy field that surrounds us.  Each time we engage in a relationship with another individual, whether that’s a parent, sibling, child, intimate partner, friend, acquaintance, co-worker,…

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